Pain, slavery and pleasure

I just want to share some quick thoughts on some (online) subs I had in the past. 

Many subs that want to be trained by me at first talked about being completely obedient and follow all the rules I gave them. But many subs can't follow one simple rule I always adress first. "Communication". I dont know why but a lot of female subs are pretty bad when it comes to constructive communication. For me as a dom a D/S arrangement is something both sides should want to do and get at least a bit fun out of it. That's why communication is key. Every sub is different and needs different handling and as a dom I want to adapt to it. But most subs won't even give you a chance to do it. So they just stop all communication and its over. I think it would be better for both sides if you talk about problems or things that went in the wrong direction instead of starting over and over again.